To make planning your special day both easy and fun, we have organized these steps into a time line.
The twelve month plan is the best way to go.
You can do it in a shorter amount of time, but places and people get booked up fast.
The sooner you can get yours booked the better.
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Twelve Months Ahead |
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1. Announce your engagement. |
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2. Set the wedding date. |
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3. Find a planner or some one to help you. |
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4. Prepare a budget |
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5. Choose the wedding party. |
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Eleven Months Ahead |
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1. Pick out and meet with the officiant. |
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2. Book a reception hall |
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3. Book a caterer. |
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4. Book a photographer and videographer. |
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5. Book the music. |
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*The sooner you can do all of this the better. |
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Ten Months Ahead |
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1. Order wedding cake. |
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2. Book florist. |
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3. Choose a theme and colors. |
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4. Select invitations and order. |
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5. If you are going to rent anything for your wedding book it. |
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*If you can get all of this out of the way, you're doing great! |
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Nine Months Ahead |
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1. Assess your look. |
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2. Set goals for personal improvement. |
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3. Design a beauty fitness plan. |
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4. Practice the art of managing stress. |
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*Every bride that I have worked with wants to look her best on the big day. Take the time to create a personal care plan that will help maintain your energy to make you feel the way you would like to for your up-coming day. |
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Eight Months Ahead |
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1. Select table linens if caterer is not doing so. |
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2. Buy decoration if you are not renting them |
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3. Select sweets if you are having them. |
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4. Shop for favors. |
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Seven Months Ahead |
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1. Shop for the bridal gown. |
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2. Shop for wedding party attire. |
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3. Determine groom's attire. |
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4. Book transportation for the wedding day. |
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Six Months Ahead |
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1. Assemble guest list and organize addresses. |
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2. Plan a bridesmaids lunch. |
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3. Register for gifts. |
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*This is a fun time to get with friends and/or family. Make it a fun day. Have lunch and finish your gift registry or pick out party favors. Pick some stores that are nationwide. |
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Five Months Ahead |
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1. Plan and book honeymoon. |
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2. Obtain a passport if you need one. |
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*Check-in with travel websites or call your travel agent to assure a safe and enjoyable honeymoon. |
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Four Months Ahead |
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1. Reserve accommodations for out-of-town guests. |
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2. Organize transportation. |
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3. Shop for a going-away outfit. |
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Three Months Ahead |
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1. Select bridal jewelry. |
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2. Get invitations ready to mail |
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3. Pick the music that you would like to have. Make sure that your D.J. has the songs you would like. |
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Two Months Ahead |
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1. Plan the rehearsal dinner. |
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2. Finalize the ceremony. |
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3. Choose gifts for participants. |
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4. Make seating arrangements and obtain place cards. |
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5. Create a wedding day timetable and distribute task card to wedding party. |
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One Months Ahead |
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1. Pick up your gown and make final alterations. |
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2. Confirm dates and details with service personnel. |
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3. Contact newspaper. |
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4. Wedding day itinerary. |
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5. Mail invitations at the end of the month. |
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6. Get your marriage license. |
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*Congratulations you've made it this far. Now it's just a matter of finalizing all of the projects you've got going. |
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Three Weeks In Advance |
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1. final arrangements for Groom's & groomsmen attire. |
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2. Review honeymoon plans and organize packing. |
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3. Have a final fitting for the wedding gown with your shoes on. |
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4. Attendants have been pick up and that they all fit. |
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5. Arrange the bachelor and bachelorette parties. |
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6. Visit your hairstylist with your headpiece to plan the final look for your wedding day. |
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Two Weeks In Advance |
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1. Pick up your gown if you have not. |
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2. Compile your final guest list. |
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3. Notify caterer of guest count, menu details and seating arrangements. |
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4. Confirm the duties, time and function of all booked services. D.J., transportation, clergy, church or hall, photographer, videographer, florist and rentals. |
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One Weeks In Advance |
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1. Prepare a travel itinerary and deliver it to appropriate people. |
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2. Prepare final wedding itinerary for wedding party members. |
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3. Write checks for final balance. |
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4. Write checks and put then in separate envelopes for the offciant, organist, and any others you may have. |
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5. Call the bakery and confirm cake delivery to reception hall. |
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6. Make a list of what photos you would like to have. |
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*Most photographers will have a list but be sure to let them know what shots you want. |
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The Day Before |
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1. Pick up the rental tuxedos. |
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2. Pick up rental car if getting one. |
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3. Greet out of town guests. If you have time. |
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4. Assemble the bride's emergency kit (needle and thread, safety pins, aspirin, pantyhose, tissues, and so forth). |
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5. Attend rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. |
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6. Give out your wedding party gifts. |
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7. Give the best man the money in envelopes to deliver to the officiant, etc. |
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8. Get everything ready to take to the church this will help you not to forget anything (dress, shoes, rings, marriage license, undergarments, makeup, etc.) |
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On the day of the wedding |
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1. Eat breakfast. You will need it. |
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2. Have your hair styled and get your makeup done. |
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3, Meet up with your bridesmaids. |
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4. Get dressed. |
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5. Enjoy what will be one of the best days of your life. |